Sunday, 14 September 2014

I realized...

I realized, sometime it is ourselves/our thought that judge our perception..
When we are in sales line, we tends to be more sensitive and easily hurt, than when we are just an ordinary self with high post in a company..
Proof?..
If you see the people that look familiar, or doing good, if they do not say Hi or show friendliness to you, you felt hurt..
If you see the  people that look familar, but not doing so good as you, if they do not say Hi or show friendliness to you, do you feel hurt?.. Nope. But felt pity for them.
This is the same situation, the same you in the situation. Just a different interpretation/story telling of yourself.

I realized that we must be more humble and proactive when we are dealing with people that not doing as good as us, as they are more sensitive and easily hurt.
Vice versa, when we are our ownself, when we meet people that doing better than us, just deal with a normal thought. Do not create stories that misunderstand others or make our ownself uncomfortable.

There are many types of people out there.. Some people just born to be logical type and they just do not smile/node to stranger or even people that look familiar. This is it.. Not that they like you or not. This is their nature.

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